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How would you develop trust, again if an adult child stole from his parent?
If you were a parent that helped your children often and always gave if they asked, what would you do if they…son and gf came into your house took your pin # and paid bills on your account without telling you? When confronted they denied but we found where the charges went and tracked them. Now would they be welcomed in your house? What is the right action…remembering a parents love is unconditional? What would you say….and if you son said it was the gf…and then you found out it was him or both of them?…could you ever trust them again, invite them into your home for holidays and still continue to offer help if they needed it?
It is not completely unforgiveable – but trust will take time, possibly years for him to rebuilt.
First – I would start here:
the gf is not related, not blood – NEVER allowed to step foot on your property. If she does – she will be hauled to jail. No questions asked, no exceptions.
The son – okay to invite to holidays – let him know that until the two of you have resolved your issues (his for wanting to steal from you and doing so – yours being trusting him not to do it again or worse) that he will be supervised at all times in your home. NEVER let him in when you are home alone – always have someone else present if he comes to the house.
Ensure he understands that he is ONLY allowed to come over (and always alone) when it has been pre-scheduled. No drop-in visits.
Most importantly – no more help if they need it. They are done with needing you for help. They had opportunities, took advantage of them, then got greedy. There are food pantries, welfare, etc., etc., many options they can use if they are really in need of help. Do not give them one more dollar of your hard-earned money. You have spent enough and received only disrespect in return for your efforts. Keep your dollars to yourself – leave them to charity or other children in your will. Stealing from you is a line that cannot be crossed and the consequences must be severe. (much less severe if they were 10 or under, but given he is an adult………well then he must be treated as one).
I wish I could help more – this is a terrible situation for you.
Good luck.
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How to Keep your Pin Secure
Banking and card security is becoming more and more of an issue as identity thieves and fraudsters find new ways to get hold of our money. If you are concerned about your credit card security, then the best thing you can do is to keep your PIN secure. Keeping your PIN secure will limit the ways in which a thief can use your card. Here are some useful tips on how to keep your PIN secure.
Take care at ATMs
One of the most common ways that people can get hold of your PIN is by seeing you type it in at an ATM. Make sure that you always shield your number whilst you type it in, and that you look behind you to make sure that no one is watching you. Also, look out for anything suspicious at the cash machine such as small cameras or electronic devices.
Never tell
Keeping your PIN secure requires that only you know the number. Although you might give your PIN to friends or family that you trust in order to take money out for you, this is a bad idea. The more people who know your PIN, then the more likely you are to have the PIN discovered. Also, never give your PIN out over any communications such as email, as your bank will never ask you for this. Keep your PIN private and it should stay that way.
Don’t keep records
Although you might have a number of cards and it might be hard to remember the PINs for all of them, make sure that you don’t write down the number anywhere at all, especially on your person. If you have your PIN written down then you are more likely to have the number stolen.
Change it regularly
Although many people keep their PIN the same for years, this can be dangerous. In order to keep your card secure you should regularly change your PIN. This means that even if your PIN is found out, the thief will not be able to use the card for a long time. Changing your number every few months is a sensible idea.
Destroy documents
When you first receive your PIN through the post, you should learn the number quickly and then destroy the document. If the letter looks to have been tampered with then you should immediately request a new number. Once you have the number learnt you should go to a cash machine and change the number to something you can easily remember, although avoid numbers that are obvious like 1234 or 0000.
Report anything suspicious
If you believe your PIN might have been stolen or intercepted, then you should report this immediately. Even if it has not been stolen, it is better to get a new PIN from your bank than run the risk of having your money used illegally. As long as you are sensible with your PIN and take precautions, your card should remain secure and safe.
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Can I trust a gay wrestler? I’m afraid he might try to do more than try to pin me.?
I think that your question is a very legitimate one, and that some of these people should get over THEMSELVES. If this is the first time you have had to wrestle a gay guy, and maybe you have been hit on by other gay guys before, then I completely understand you worrying about this. Here’s my advice though……use that as YOUR fuel to dominate the match. Keep reminding yourself throughout the match that you will make him completely ineffective and throw him around like a rag doll, that way he won’t pin you or try any foul play. This is your chance to show him that straight men don’t play his game. Good luck man.
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